Category Archives: Books – Parenting & Adults

May 8 2012

If You Lived Here, You’d Be Home Now

[ABOUT] Rickie left home a long time ago-so how is it that at the age of twenty-five, she’s living with her parents again, and sleeping in the bedroom of her childhood home? At least one thing has changed since high school: She now has a very sweet but frequently challenging son named Noah, who attends the same tony private LA school she herself attended. Rickie fit in fine when she was a student, but now her age and tattoos make her stand out from all the blond Stepford moms, who are desperate to know why someone so young-and so unmarried-has a kid in first grade.

Already on the defensive, Rickie goes into full mother-tigress mode when her small and unathletic son tells her that the gym teacher is out to get him. She storms the principal’s office, only to discover that Andrew Fulton, the coach, is no dumb jock. As her friendship with Andrew develops, Rickie finds herself questioning her assumptions-about motherhood, being a grown-up, and falling in love.

[REVIEW] This was a quick read. I was not prepared to enjoy this book as much as I did. As a mom of 3 tween and teen daughters, it was affirming. It was interesting to watch the dynamics between this self-centered and young mother dealing with her child but also still dealing with being a daughter herself and working on her issues with her own mother.

Toward the end of the book, there was a section that really hit home… The young mom says to her own mother, “My son takes everything out on me.”
Her mother’s response was, “That is kind of how it works with mothers. Kids get scared or they make mistakes and get angry at themselves, and you’re there, you’re always there, so they take it out on you because you’re the only one it’s safe to take it out on. Kids need to know that there’s someone there who won’t ever go away or leave them, no matter how horribly they behave. So you give that to your child.”

This is not always the answer we want yet as a mom when you are feeling beaten down, it is a good reminder that although our kids do not always show their appreciation, we are still the center of their lives.

Nov 24 2011

Book: Miracles Are Made – A Real-Life Guide to Autism

[ABOUT] Miracles Are Made is a real-life guide written from the happenings of real life. It is a How To on living with and healing autism. Lynette Louise began life’s journey first as an individual, then as a mother, and eventually as a grandmother reaching into the heart of this disorder and helping first herself and then her children to become independent. Lynette’s journey, challenging as it was, taught her many lessons on the very real possibilities and limitations buried within the diagnosis.In Miracles Are Made Lynette not only shares stories from her personal and professional life but also illuminates the whys and the wherefores of the social climate parents find themselves in when coping with autism. She does this by educating us on the history of science and social awareness in relation to this disorder. She then teaches us how to make the best of what is possible and recreate the healings she has been fortunate enough to facilitate. You will come away understanding how to understand autism.You will come away knowing what to do.  WEBSITE

[REVIEW] The surprisingly honest book was written by global autism expert and mother Lynette Louise. This book could not have been written so beautifully by any other.  As a global autism expert she is invited eagerly into homes around the world-from Beirut to India to Kansas and more- as she shares her unique blend of play therapy, family dynamics counseling and neurofeedback (biofeedback for the brain), effectively guiding parents comfortably into the role of expert in their family’s healing.

As a single mom (although often married, rarely co-parenting or co-bill paying) of eight now grown kids-six adopted, four of whom were on the spectrum of autism- she is non-judgmental, informed and quite hilarious.  She is also my mother. Because of this I hesitated in writing this review.  I figured people would read it as biased and maybe even self-serving.  Perhaps some people will read it that way.

The reality is, this review is quite possibly more valuable because of my relationship with the author.

Let’s all remember that our parents’ endeavors generally make us nervous.  Our fear regarding how it reflects on us (although not the gargantuan proportion it was as teenagers) is always present.  I was always nervous when my mom stepped on stage to sing or preform stand-up comedy.  My palms sweat when she was about to make a radio show appearance or otherwise share her vision with the world.  I suppose it didn’t help that until neurofeedback my mom herself was still struggling with social skills and face blindness.  So whenever she was in the spotlight I was scared.  I wanted her to succeed.  I wanted her to be ‘right’ or ‘smart’ or funny.  Sometimes, admittedly, I wanted her to shut up.

But with MIRACLES ARE MADE, she has shared with passion, humor and intelligence our lifetime of learning.  The therapies, struggles and mistakes made along the road to independence for three of my four autistic brothers have become a gift for other moms.  Other sisters.  Other families.   I don’t know if it is ‘smart’ or ‘right’, but I do know that it is beautiful and helpful.  And downright funny!

I have four sons of my own, my two youngest being almost autistic themselves and my highlighter was put to the test during my first, second and third reading of mom’s new book.  The overall attitude and narrative make the concrete parenting answers easily grasped, understood and remembered.

The sharing of miracles made and recognized by some of her clients from all over the world, invite a feeling of global understanding regarding autism and parenting in general.   They also remind us to see the miracles when they are made.  So many examples leave few readers and their unique situations feeling left out.  We are all represented in this book, and given concrete tools and understanding.

I love this book and sing its praise loudly.  I share with friends, teachers and strangers.  I carry a copy with me at all times and have given it proudly as a gift to struggling parents.  I am working as hard as I can to introduce my mom and her message to the world, proudly learning as she steps on stage, talks on the radio and appears on television. I love this book and recommend it to parents (not just of autism) everywhere. I love my mom and recommend her, too!

~Tsara Shelton

Oct 29 2011

Active Baby, Healthy Brain

[ABOUT] Active Baby, Healthy Brain by Margaret Sasse contains 135 infant-to-toddler exercises designed to build connections between your child’s physical and mental development. The activities are charmingly illustrated and organized by age group and area of brain development (vestibular, gross motor, etc). Sasse includes simple explanations of why and how these physical activities stimulate brain development, but they don’t get in the way of the most important part– the activities themselves.

[AUTHOR] Margaret Sasse

[REVIEW] When I was pregnant, my husband (the personal trainer) liked to joke about the baby exercises he would be putting our new son through. I would roll my eyes, picturing tiny foam dumbbells and babies in “downward dog” yoga positions. Little did I realize how important baby exercise could actually be!

The activities in Healthy Baby, Active Brain are simple enough to mix into our normal playtime. As a mom, it helps me to be more intentional about how I play with my baby, and it is easy to see progress when an originally challenging activity becomes easy. My son has particularly loved going through an obstacle course (for visual tracking and focusing), crawling on a raised surface (for visual depth perception), and playing “wheelbarrow” (for shoulder, arms, and hand strength).

This book would be a great gift for any new parent, parent with young children, preschool teacher or childcare provider, as well as anyone in the sensory development field.

Oct 29 2011

Start Something that Matters

[ABOUT] In Start Something That Matters, Blake Mycoskie tells the story of TOMS, one of the fastest-growing shoe companies in the world, and combines it with lessons learned from such other innovative organizations as method, charity: water, FEED Projects, and TerraCycle. Blake presents the six simple keys for creating or transforming your own life and business, from discovering your core story to being resourceful without resources; from overcoming fear and doubt to incorporating giving into every aspect of your life. No matter what kind of change you’re considering, Start Something That Matters gives you the stories, ideas, and practical tips that can help you get started.

[AUTHOR] Blake Mycoskie, Founder of TOMS Shoes

[REVIEW] If you’ve not yet heard the story of TOMS shoes, well, first, where have you been? Second, it’s a story worth learning, sharing, and replicating. In Start Something that Matters,TOMS Founder & Chief Shoe Giver, Blake Mycoskie, opens the hood of his company to explain how and why his company works so well, and gives practical advice and encouragement on how to harness the passion that fuels you as a sustainable career.

Blake Mycoskie was experienced in successful for-profit start-ups when he made a fateful trip to Argentina. On an unplanned detour among the poor in Argentina, Blake befriended children in an impoverished village and witnessed first-hand the heartbreaking difficulties that stem from not having shoes. Barefoot children are often prevented from attending school and are vulnerable to disease and injury. His brain whirling, he set to work concocting a business that would bring the popular Argentine espadrilles to the US market, and individually match children in need to a pair of new shoes – for free.

Blake quickly realized he had something more than a business plan – it had the qualities of a crusade. His story caught fire among consumers eager to transform a routine purchase into an opportunity to make a tangible difference in the world. For every pair you purchase, TOMSwill give a pair of shoes to a child in need. One for One. As audacious as this might sound, TOMS is part of a growing and influential movement, sometimes known as Conscious (or Compassionate) Capitalism. The people behind it promote the idea that one can make a living while making a difference. TOMS’ success is proof positive of the power of a story-driven business to secure customer loyalty.

Blake relates the story behind TOMS in the introduction. The meat of the book is a step-by-step plan for how to channel your passion for good into a business. This is an easy-to-read, easy-to-understand business primer, explaining basic management principles and strategies (from hiring well, to inspiring your staff, to dealing with mistakes). Blake recommends incorporating giving into any business, and offers up reasons that are both altruistic and practical.

This book is not reserved to those in a mid-life career crisis; it should be required reading for teens and college students wrestling with the age-old question, “What do I want to be when I grow up?” In a TOMS world, there is no conflict between making a living and making the world better. And in practical terms, Blake demonstrates how helping the world can be profitable, with examples from business leaders and entrepreneurs doing both. From his own solid business experience Blake offers advice on how to start a story-based organization.

Whatever your life stage Start Something that Matters will get you thinking about what “story” you want to be about. It’s a great read for you and your teen, and hopefully will kick start family conversations about what really matters in life.

As you would expect, with every book you purchase, a new book will be provided for a child in need.

Start Something that Matters. Blake Mycoskie. Spiegel & Grau. 2011.
Available through Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or Books-A-Million. 

Video trailer for book: www.startsomethingthatmatters.com/2011/08/start-something-that-matters-official-video-trailer/

Oct 29 2011

If It Was Easy They’d Call the Whole Damn Thing a Honeymoon

[ABOUT] If It Was Easy They’d Call the Whole Damn Thing a Honeymoon:
Living With and Loving the TV-Addicted, Sex-Obsessed, Not-So-Handy Man You Married… When you said “I do,” you promised you’d stick it out no matter how sick, poor or miserable you got. But after a while you realize till death do us part is a really long time. Happily ever after? Perhaps a slight exaggeration. From managing a man-cold and negotiating control of the remote to staying true to the peskiest of all vows (forsaking all others), HONEYMOON is a must-read manifesto on not just surviving marriage but thriving in it, in an age when people live forever and getting a divorce is as easy as ordering a latte.

Kirkus Reviews describes HONEYMOON as a “candid account of how the grass is not always greener in someone else’s marriage.” (The same review claims “The author delivers a raw, postfeminist take on the domestic fate of women,” to which the author responds, “I do? That is so totally awesome!”) Publisher’s Weekly says “Readers who are, or have been, coupled will laugh (or cringe) as they recognize themselves in these pages” and adds, “While the author refers to statistics or studies here and there, her in-the-trenches tales are the real guts. Readers will likely find it very funny.”

You can check out the (hilarious) book trailer on Jenna’s website.

HONEYMOON is available on Amazon, in Target and Costco, and of course in whatever bookstores are left out there.

[AUTHOR] Jenna McCarthy is the author of If It Was Easy They’d Call the Whole Damn Thing a Honeymoon: Living with and Loving the TV-Addicted, Sex-Obsessed, Not-So-Handy Man You Married

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Oct 29 2011

Bonding Over Beauty

[ABOUT] In this down to earth guide for moms of tweens, Bonding Over Beauty offers practical advice for building self-esteem, confidence, and trust. Moms of tween girls know what’s coming: puberty. As a young girl heads toward the teen years and exerts her independence, mom suddenly seems out of touch. She just doesn’t understand.

That’s the shift Erika Katz—former actress and model and now mother of a tween girl—hopes to prevent by teaching moms how to open up a dialogue during the often awkward preteen and early teen years. Her approach: give moms all the information they need to guide their daughters through the trials of womanhood while providing fun bonding activities they can do with their daughters.

The tween years present a golden opportunity for moms to gain their daughters’ confidence. A mother’s approach to sticky issues such as shaving legs, using tampons, or wearing makeup to school will help determine the nature of the relationship she has with her daughter. Erika’s practical, comprehensive tips on hair, skin, makeup, hair removal, nails, healthy eating, and puberty, as well as the great bonding activities presented in each chapter, will give moms the knowledge and tools they need to create bonds that will last a lifetime.

[AUTHOR] Erika Katz

[REVIEW] As a mother of three girls who are entering the stage of make-up and now obsessed with fashion, I was happy to learn about this book. The book covers everything from beauty to exercise to eating healthy. Bonding Over Beauty is a great all around reference with tips that are practical and applicable.

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Oct 29 2011

The Cult of Lego

[ABOUT] In The Cult of Lego,  Wired’s GeekDad blogger John Baichtal and BrickJournal founder Joe Meno take you on a magnificent, illustrated tour of the LEGO® community, its people, and their creations. The Cult of LEGO introduces us to fans and builders from all walks of life. People like professional LEGO artist Nathan Sawaya; enigmatic Dutch painter Ego Leonard (who maintains that he is, in fact, a LEGO minifig); Angus MacLane, a Pixar animator who builds CubeDudes, instantly recognizable likenesses of fictional characters; Brick Testament creator Brendan Powell Smith, who uses LEGO to illustrate biblical stories; and Henry Lim, whose work includes a series of models recreating M.C. Escher lithographs and a full-scale, functioning LEGO harpsichord.

[AUTHOR] John Baichtal

[REVIEW] For any child or adult that had a passion for Lego, this book is for you. The illustrations will inspire you to pull out the Lego and start building again.

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