[ABOUT] Rickie left home a long time ago-so how is it that at the age of twenty-five, she’s living with her parents again, and sleeping in the bedroom of her childhood home? At least one thing has changed since high school: She now has a very sweet but frequently challenging son named Noah, who attends the same tony private LA school she herself attended. Rickie fit in fine when she was a student, but now her age and tattoos make her stand out from all the blond Stepford moms, who are desperate to know why someone so young-and so unmarried-has a kid in first grade.
Already on the defensive, Rickie goes into full mother-tigress mode when her small and unathletic son tells her that the gym teacher is out to get him. She storms the principal’s office, only to discover that Andrew Fulton, the coach, is no dumb jock. As her friendship with Andrew develops, Rickie finds herself questioning her assumptions-about motherhood, being a grown-up, and falling in love.
[REVIEW] This was a quick read. I was not prepared to enjoy this book as much as I did. As a mom of 3 tween and teen daughters, it was affirming. It was interesting to watch the dynamics between this self-centered and young mother dealing with her child but also still dealing with being a daughter herself and working on her issues with her own mother.
Toward the end of the book, there was a section that really hit home… The young mom says to her own mother, “My son takes everything out on me.”
Her mother’s response was, “That is kind of how it works with mothers. Kids get scared or they make mistakes and get angry at themselves, and you’re there, you’re always there, so they take it out on you because you’re the only one it’s safe to take it out on. Kids need to know that there’s someone there who won’t ever go away or leave them, no matter how horribly they behave. So you give that to your child.”
This is not always the answer we want yet as a mom when you are feeling beaten down, it is a good reminder that although our kids do not always show their appreciation, we are still the center of their lives.
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